My daughter is 14, ive tried to be the best mum in the world,i know shes at an age where friends seem to be the only people that matter( I was her age once too) But lately things are troubling her at school, and shes confused about this on then off again BF she has, I only ever try to be nice to her when shes like this... and she does talk to me about stuff when she is ready, but lately she just keeps treating me like Crap, in the past Ive taken her mobile or ipod or banned her from the net and she just abuses me, she always feels bad after..I sometimes try and talk sternly to her and end up yelling because she is so horrible to me .. other times i just keep my cool like today.. but today I just couldnt take anymore, so i sent her off to my mothers with no ph, no ipod no internet, just so she can have some time away from it all and have a good think about how her behaviour is affecting me and everyone and herself. She has been cutting her self a little as well.. she is such a great kid,and I do tell her this often, have i done the wrong thing sending her to her grandmothers. PS shes only 5 minute drive away..I felt if i didnt do this i was going to SNAP sometimes i think ive let her get away with too much, just to keep the peace. help.. is anyone else going through the same thing?