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Help please, confused! Is he busy, not interested, or dont want to be desperate?
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<blockquote data-quote="Kat" data-source="post: 2704432" data-attributes="member: 207311"><p>We were introduced by his relative (family friend). 1st hangout was his idea, 2nd was mine, 3rd was his.</p><p></p><p>After 3rd hangout, he had said "have a good night, hope to see you soon". I had broke eye contact but looked back at him. I nodded and said "have a good night" and "take care" (I felt he gave mixed signals. he kept saying he wants to study abroad for next degree).</p><p></p><p>Last week, after 2 weeks of no talking, texted how hes doing. He had already registered for exam (nov. 22) and preparing for it. Neither of us initiated another hangout.</p><p></p><p>Few minutes ago, texted him how hes doing. He still said hes busy preparing (also works part time). I had also asked "are you free this week?" but he said "im afraid not. sorry...". Told him "ok no prob~"</p><p></p><p>1. Why is he being like this? Is it what I said after 3rd hangout? Is it because I kept encouraging him to study abroad (which he kept mentioning about)?</p><p></p><p>2. If hes really busy, do guys not want to socialize when they have other things on mind?</p><p></p><p>3. Why did he even initiated the first hangout?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kat, post: 2704432, member: 207311"] We were introduced by his relative (family friend). 1st hangout was his idea, 2nd was mine, 3rd was his. After 3rd hangout, he had said "have a good night, hope to see you soon". I had broke eye contact but looked back at him. I nodded and said "have a good night" and "take care" (I felt he gave mixed signals. he kept saying he wants to study abroad for next degree). Last week, after 2 weeks of no talking, texted how hes doing. He had already registered for exam (nov. 22) and preparing for it. Neither of us initiated another hangout. Few minutes ago, texted him how hes doing. He still said hes busy preparing (also works part time). I had also asked "are you free this week?" but he said "im afraid not. sorry...". Told him "ok no prob~" 1. Why is he being like this? Is it what I said after 3rd hangout? Is it because I kept encouraging him to study abroad (which he kept mentioning about)? 2. If hes really busy, do guys not want to socialize when they have other things on mind? 3. Why did he even initiated the first hangout? [/QUOTE]
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