BABIES?! FOSTER? ADOPTING? MID LIFE CRISIS MY GIRLFRIEND UGH!?
baby? or no baby? wat are my options > is there a way to compromise? its not like gettin a pet where we trial?
(continued from first part) its not alike a pet wher eyou try it out and decide if its a right fit or figuring out a breed its a kid ! ive told her bout foster kids so we could adjust and get some familiarity . we both still have debts to pay and crazy work schedules. her excuse about foster kids? is that they wont evenlike us . i tell her , hell our own kids are gun hate us once in awhile, whats the difference. she also went on about age being a factor i agree it is ,but 27 is hardly a problem and as far as runnin around and chasin kids i tell her eat healthy and youll feel 30 at 40.Lesbian/ Baby Relationship Crisis I blame her mother! and her upcoming 27th birthday??
im in a lesbian relationship and my girlfriend is 4 years older than im and she wants to have a baby already cause she feels shes getting older. We've talked about this topic a couple of times but always ends up in the same direction but i feel that im not ready for this
im only 22 and feel that i still have my whole life ahead of me
what should i do leave the relationship and talk to her about it
or go with the idea of having the baby and see how it turns out.
if i like it or not??
baby? or no baby? wat are my options > is there a way to compromise? its not like gettin a pet where we trial?
(continued from first part) its not alike a pet wher eyou try it out and decide if its a right fit or figuring out a breed its a kid ! ive told her bout foster kids so we could adjust and get some familiarity . we both still have debts to pay and crazy work schedules. her excuse about foster kids? is that they wont evenlike us . i tell her , hell our own kids are gun hate us once in awhile, whats the difference. she also went on about age being a factor i agree it is ,but 27 is hardly a problem and as far as runnin around and chasin kids i tell her eat healthy and youll feel 30 at 40.Lesbian/ Baby Relationship Crisis I blame her mother! and her upcoming 27th birthday??
im in a lesbian relationship and my girlfriend is 4 years older than im and she wants to have a baby already cause she feels shes getting older. We've talked about this topic a couple of times but always ends up in the same direction but i feel that im not ready for this
im only 22 and feel that i still have my whole life ahead of me
what should i do leave the relationship and talk to her about it
or go with the idea of having the baby and see how it turns out.
if i like it or not??