...he lose interest? I've been dating a man for a couple months and we had sex for the first time the other day. Admittedly I was very hesitant and nervous. I've been single for about 3 years, since my ex left me after I had our son, and I haven't been with any men since then. I have some insecurities about my "mommy-body" and I've only been dating this man for a couple months and probably would have waited a bit longer to move in that direction, but he was very seductive and persistent and I gave in.
The sex was okay. I was a little insecure which I'm sure wasn't the sexy confidence most are looking for... however it is what it is. It was in the middle of the day (no soft lighting to make me feel a little less self-conscious!
) He went for a long time and then said he couldn't ejaculate... his words "I don't think it's going to happen." I asked if there was anything I could do, we tried a different position, oral, etc. to no avail. He said it happens to him about one out of every 3 or 4 times and it has nothing to do with me.
Anyway. Later that day he did text me and said "I'm telling you, I'm addicted. There you go dancing through my mind again." And he also sent me another yesterday letting me know he was thinking about me and hoped I was having an good weekend. (I was working all weekend and he has his kids).
So, I'm feeling insecure. For one because he didn't *** during our first sexual encounter and also because he of how it went.
Does sex with a new partner sometimes turn out awkward like this, and does it ruin things???
The sex was okay. I was a little insecure which I'm sure wasn't the sexy confidence most are looking for... however it is what it is. It was in the middle of the day (no soft lighting to make me feel a little less self-conscious!
) He went for a long time and then said he couldn't ejaculate... his words "I don't think it's going to happen." I asked if there was anything I could do, we tried a different position, oral, etc. to no avail. He said it happens to him about one out of every 3 or 4 times and it has nothing to do with me.Anyway. Later that day he did text me and said "I'm telling you, I'm addicted. There you go dancing through my mind again." And he also sent me another yesterday letting me know he was thinking about me and hoped I was having an good weekend. (I was working all weekend and he has his kids).
So, I'm feeling insecure. For one because he didn't *** during our first sexual encounter and also because he of how it went.
Does sex with a new partner sometimes turn out awkward like this, and does it ruin things???