I dont know if Im asking a questions or just venting to someone-anyone, because I am so frustrated.
Here is the situation-
I have a 36 year old brother with whom I room-mate with. I moved out of my expensive apartment to move into his because he was losing it, and it would be easy on me financially. Since then, He never has his end of the rent, he has a REALLY NASTY habit of spitting tobacco in cups and leaving them EVERYWHERE. I tend to have a few hundred dollars in my room in a certain place, because I am paranoid and don't like putting ALL of my money into banks. But he seems to think it is "the house" money. He tooks about $200 a week. I have went ballistic on him over these things, yet-no change. I have added my name to the lease, but he is still on there. And just this past weekend, He took my car while I was sleeping "To go get a dr. pepper from 7/11
" and HE GOT PULLED OVER IN MY CAR AND GOT ARRESTED, IT WAS TOWED AND NOW THERE IS A 30 DAY HOLD. I am SEETHING right now, I have to take the trolley to work, AND pay $1800+ to get MY car out out the tow when I didnt put it there.
What do I do? I mean, Hes my brother and all..but I am starting to hate him and I WANT HIM OUT. Im not leaving that apartment when I shell out 1150 every month.
Any advice people?
Kids, go to the gaming section. This one is for adults.
he *takes* sorry I was so upset I was putting the wrong words in. lol
Here is the situation-
I have a 36 year old brother with whom I room-mate with. I moved out of my expensive apartment to move into his because he was losing it, and it would be easy on me financially. Since then, He never has his end of the rent, he has a REALLY NASTY habit of spitting tobacco in cups and leaving them EVERYWHERE. I tend to have a few hundred dollars in my room in a certain place, because I am paranoid and don't like putting ALL of my money into banks. But he seems to think it is "the house" money. He tooks about $200 a week. I have went ballistic on him over these things, yet-no change. I have added my name to the lease, but he is still on there. And just this past weekend, He took my car while I was sleeping "To go get a dr. pepper from 7/11
" and HE GOT PULLED OVER IN MY CAR AND GOT ARRESTED, IT WAS TOWED AND NOW THERE IS A 30 DAY HOLD. I am SEETHING right now, I have to take the trolley to work, AND pay $1800+ to get MY car out out the tow when I didnt put it there.What do I do? I mean, Hes my brother and all..but I am starting to hate him and I WANT HIM OUT. Im not leaving that apartment when I shell out 1150 every month.
Any advice people?
Kids, go to the gaming section. This one is for adults.
he *takes* sorry I was so upset I was putting the wrong words in. lol