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<blockquote data-quote="Nobodywantstodie" data-source="post: 2447930" data-attributes="member: 459460">I&#039;ve been dating this guy for not very long (only about 2 weeks), and yes, he does call himself my boyfriend and that&#039;s what he asked when he asked me out, so yes, he is my boyfriend. And no, he wasn&#039;t pressuring me for sex. But at one point, we started talking about a couple of our other friends who are dating, and they do have sex. I didn&#039;t know if he was insinuating anything or not by bringing it up, because we just kind of swap stories about people, and we got on that topic just by talking about friends. But I wondered so I just said that I didn&#039;t think having sex in college was a good idea, and he said it wasn&#039;t bad if you didn&#039;t have sex with loads of people and stuff like that.I don&#039;t want to have sex until I&#039;m married or until I intend to marry someone, definitely not now. I know that if a guy won&#039;t date you unless you have sex with him, you should dump him, which is what I would do. I&#039;m just not sure how and when to bring it up, I&#039;ve been told by some teacher that you should right away, on the first date, but that&#039;s awkward... and also when I tell him it should probably be in person? It&#039;s possible he didn&#039;t mean anything by it, also, maybe I unintentionally insulted some of his friends who do have sex... but in any case, it should still be brought up.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Nobodywantstodie, post: 2447930, member: 459460"] I've been dating this guy for not very long (only about 2 weeks), and yes, he does call himself my boyfriend and that's what he asked when he asked me out, so yes, he is my boyfriend. And no, he wasn't pressuring me for sex. But at one point, we started talking about a couple of our other friends who are dating, and they do have sex. I didn't know if he was insinuating anything or not by bringing it up, because we just kind of swap stories about people, and we got on that topic just by talking about friends. But I wondered so I just said that I didn't think having sex in college was a good idea, and he said it wasn't bad if you didn't have sex with loads of people and stuff like that. I don't want to have sex until I'm married or until I intend to marry someone, definitely not now. I know that if a guy won't date you unless you have sex with him, you should dump him, which is what I would do. I'm just not sure how and when to bring it up, I've been told by some teacher that you should right away, on the first date, but that's awkward... and also when I tell him it should probably be in person? It's possible he didn't mean anything by it, also, maybe I unintentionally insulted some of his friends who do have sex... but in any case, it should still be brought up. [/QUOTE]

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