look i am a slender atheletic girl in 5'3 and 120 pounds and my boyfriend has those xtra pounds you have its no big deal as long as you dont get to big im talking huge than you shouldn't have a problem ive bin with him 3 yrs and i wouldnt chainge him i love him just as he is theirs just more of him to love lol and what you ca do is be confident thats what atracted me to him be confident nice and dress your own way who ever likes you is gona like you for you not for your xtra pounds