How can I fix the rumors?

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Bounce

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Im a traditional southern athlete big fast and black. Im thirteen and I go to an almost all white middle school. Im awesome what can I say I got scouts looking at me in two different sports. Well this chick I like she is white let me feel her boobs. She told me she don't like me but I did tell bout two people now its round the whole school. She also herd I called her a whore from these little twins I hate. But she told my friend that she thinks im hot but I am more of a one night stand person. Now what can I do I really like her and want to go out with her but she told me to ******* get over it but we both know she didn't mean that. But lately some other girls are flirting with me I don't mind but I am getting sick of waiting around for her. O and today she told someone she likes me now after she told me she hated me she is confusing me. No stupid answers please cause Im not in the damn mood.
 
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STear

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Forget about her ! Now probably she is just saying that she likes you so you don't pay attention to other girls..but probably she just one someone paying attention to her..not really like you! So don't wait for her ..choose another girl cause she just want attention not a relationship!
 
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RobbVann

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At your age it easy to get caught up in she said-he said ,I said etc. If you didn't say any of those things ,You should let her know that!. Kids your age also say things they don't mean and later regret. Maybe even write her a nice note but always keep in mind that notes usually get shown to friends so dont say anything you dont want other kids or ALL the kids -to know! Yeah, rumors suck and sometimes it takes a while to quell them! If you keep YOUR mouth shut, no one can twist your words and a guy who is discreet and DOESN'T KISS AND TELL will be respected and will have alot more FUN (if you know what I mean) , than a big mouthed braggart! Don't be the arrogant athlete guy and you'll be liked as a MAN and not just for your field skills! Go get 'em tiger!
 
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NeEeDe

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I'm sorry. Relationship problems suck. But it sounds like you most certainly have the confidence to deal with it! Move on from this girl. It doesn't sound like she respects you much and there are PLENTY of fish in the sea. Also, learn from this experience, and next time, keep what happens in the bedroom private! Especially at the age of 13, sexual rumors can be extremely damaging, not only to you, but to the girl involved as well. Do your best to tell everyone that you did not call her a whore and from now on only say good things about her, so that it's clear you're on good terms. Also, don't pay too much attention to the rumors. Rumors are just rumors. You can do your best to clear them up, but in the end, what does it matter what other people think of you? As long as you are a happy, healthy, responsible person, other peoples' opinions don't matter.
 
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AeFriend

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Tell her the rumors she's heard are not true, you think she is a beautiful, amazing person, and you really want to try to have a relationship with her. Finish by saying she does not have to respond immediately, to take a day to think about it. Once you know where she stands you can either have a great time with her or it is time to move on.
 
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Blazin98

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I'm a 13 year old boy and i can relate to this,but how you can stop the rumors is you need to tell the girl that you like, sorry and after that you need to express your feelings to her make sure that no matter what you need to also make sure that the whole school knows the truth.If the girl you like doesn't accept what your saying don't worry about it there's more girls in the world other then her but honestly if you really like her try everything you can to win her over.
 
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Blazin98

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I'm a 13 year old boy and i can relate to this,but how you can stop the rumors is you need to tell the girl that you like, sorry and after that you need to express your feelings to her make sure that no matter what you need to also make sure that the whole school knows the truth.If the girl you like doesn't accept what your saying don't worry about it there's more girls in the world other then her but honestly if you really like her try everything you can to win her over.
 
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