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<blockquote data-quote="QueenofHearts" data-source="post: 1582035" data-attributes="member: 91031">I was in a relationship with my ex for 4 years. He turned physically and verbally abusive the 4th year. I knew I could never have a stable future with someone like that so we eventually broke up. Of course I still had that tugging love feeling, but I told myself I did not want a future w/ someone who has laid his hands on me abusively. But the only regret I have is never turning him in. It would&#039;ve given me closure to see him get punished somehow. If I would&#039;ve turned him in he wouldn&#039;t be where he is now. He would&#039;ve been struggling in his career and relationship w/ that on his records. And that is what that abusive man deserves. But he has been doing great in his job and a just 2 months after we broke up he met some girl and a month later they got married! They had a kid and he acts all happy bringing them to our church. I can&#039;t change churches because I have obligations there, I&#039;m in the choir and my grandfather is the pastor so it makes me and him happy that I am a member of his church. Everytime I see his and his new family it angers me because I know the truth of how he really is. He acts like he is doing just fine and laughing all the time, and here I am suffering and not being able to trust guys because I was abused. I would&#039;ve been over it long ago if I would&#039;ve seen him get punished for what he did. How can I get closure on him?</blockquote>

[QUOTE="QueenofHearts, post: 1582035, member: 91031"] I was in a relationship with my ex for 4 years. He turned physically and verbally abusive the 4th year. I knew I could never have a stable future with someone like that so we eventually broke up. Of course I still had that tugging love feeling, but I told myself I did not want a future w/ someone who has laid his hands on me abusively. But the only regret I have is never turning him in. It would've given me closure to see him get punished somehow. If I would've turned him in he wouldn't be where he is now. He would've been struggling in his career and relationship w/ that on his records. And that is what that abusive man deserves. But he has been doing great in his job and a just 2 months after we broke up he met some girl and a month later they got married! They had a kid and he acts all happy bringing them to our church. I can't change churches because I have obligations there, I'm in the choir and my grandfather is the pastor so it makes me and him happy that I am a member of his church. Everytime I see his and his new family it angers me because I know the truth of how he really is. He acts like he is doing just fine and laughing all the time, and here I am suffering and not being able to trust guys because I was abused. I would've been over it long ago if I would've seen him get punished for what he did. How can I get closure on him? [/QUOTE]

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