NadiaNatasha
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- Feb 24, 2009
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I love my boyfriend very much and I know he loves me too. We've been living together for about 1 1/2 years now and when we first moved in together I used to always want to have sex with him, but lately I just don't want to at all. I feel really bad because I'm afraid to tell him and hurt his feelings.
We usually get along great and never keep secrets from eachother but this is complicated for me. I end up having to lie to him and make up any excuse not to have sex. Sometimes I really can't avoid the situation and I find myself having sex with him and not liking it at all even though I try, but it becomes awkward and even painful sometimes.
I don't know what is wrong with me or what I need to do to fix this. I'm currently not taking any birth control pills or anything of that sort. I used to suffer from depression before I even met him, and I think it's happening all over again. I don't know if that has anything to do with the problem, I just know that I want to have a sexually normal relationship like we used to. I just dont know what to do or think anymore...
We usually get along great and never keep secrets from eachother but this is complicated for me. I end up having to lie to him and make up any excuse not to have sex. Sometimes I really can't avoid the situation and I find myself having sex with him and not liking it at all even though I try, but it becomes awkward and even painful sometimes.
I don't know what is wrong with me or what I need to do to fix this. I'm currently not taking any birth control pills or anything of that sort. I used to suffer from depression before I even met him, and I think it's happening all over again. I don't know if that has anything to do with the problem, I just know that I want to have a sexually normal relationship like we used to. I just dont know what to do or think anymore...