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<blockquote data-quote="Mark" data-source="post: 2605742" data-attributes="member: 209771">This girl I work with, we had a thing for 6 months and I have known her for 8. She spent most of her time with me at work and we would always be comfortable and got on really well. She didn&#039;t want to jump into a relationship soon because she wasn&#039;t over her ex. At the start, we did date and during our &quot;thing&quot; we did have arguments when she would give mixed signals and stopped being clear on what she wanted.Fast forward to now and she told me she doesn&#039;t want to date me because I am a work colleague and she still has feelings for her ex.She shows emotion around me, tears etc which lead me to believe she has some feelings for me. I had a woman &quot;friend&quot; who I told some things to when she would annoy me. These two got into a bit of an argument one day and my women friend dropped hints that she knew things about us and kind of was being cold with her.I could see this bothered the girl when she told me as she look like she couldn&#039;t trust me and her eyes kinda changed and looked &quot;sneaky&quot; so I knew she was going to plot something. 2 weeks later she writes on her facebook she has a new boyfriend even though she told me she wasn&#039;t over her ex. I asked her why she did this and told me it was to piss off her ex then alot of our work colleagues obviously saw this and believed she had a boyfriend.They started to mock me because of the time we spent together. Now this week EVERYONE at work is giving me bad looks as if to say &quot;she had a boyfriend all along and you were stalking her&quot; I&#039;m getting it from everyone and it&#039;s making me think she said things.I asked her and she told me she said she had a boyfriend so they didn&#039;t think of anything. I feel that she is bad mouthing me though and I can&#039;t even be near her because people laugh at me. Could it be all her or maybe it was the facebook thing? I don&#039;t know the actual rumours, they could a number of them but everyone is hostile and trying to bully me.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Mark, post: 2605742, member: 209771"] This girl I work with, we had a thing for 6 months and I have known her for 8. She spent most of her time with me at work and we would always be comfortable and got on really well. She didn't want to jump into a relationship soon because she wasn't over her ex. At the start, we did date and during our "thing" we did have arguments when she would give mixed signals and stopped being clear on what she wanted. Fast forward to now and she told me she doesn't want to date me because I am a work colleague and she still has feelings for her ex. She shows emotion around me, tears etc which lead me to believe she has some feelings for me. I had a woman "friend" who I told some things to when she would annoy me. These two got into a bit of an argument one day and my women friend dropped hints that she knew things about us and kind of was being cold with her. I could see this bothered the girl when she told me as she look like she couldn't trust me and her eyes kinda changed and looked "sneaky" so I knew she was going to plot something. 2 weeks later she writes on her facebook she has a new boyfriend even though she told me she wasn't over her ex. I asked her why she did this and told me it was to piss off her ex then alot of our work colleagues obviously saw this and believed she had a boyfriend. They started to mock me because of the time we spent together. Now this week EVERYONE at work is giving me bad looks as if to say "she had a boyfriend all along and you were stalking her" I'm getting it from everyone and it's making me think she said things. I asked her and she told me she said she had a boyfriend so they didn't think of anything. I feel that she is bad mouthing me though and I can't even be near her because people laugh at me. Could it be all her or maybe it was the facebook thing? I don't know the actual rumours, they could a number of them but everyone is hostile and trying to bully me. [/QUOTE]

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