I have a problem....I like men, I'm a bisexual, but I only want to spend my life with a guy. I really do.
I don't hangout with women, I only friends with guys. But I am generally nice towards women. The problem is, I had girls telling me that they liked me. The latest breakout just recently.
A few days ago, a girl was crying to me that she liked me. I don't know what to do.....I told her that I like men, then she got angry. The next day, she brought the whole platoon of her family to force me to marry her. The main problem is, her parent doesn't believe me that I'm gay! They thought that I only said that to reject her and they thought that I consider the girl to be, err, not good looking. But I'm not! They say that I don't look 'gay' at all....I don't understand...I don't know how gay is supposed to be? I never knew how to be feminine and all....
So help me, I'm serious....please....and an advice on how should I behave when things like this happening again.
Oh, they also pointed at the fact that I'm still single. And I never had any relationship before. So, they are trying to make myself to believe that I'm just trying to rebelling by being gay.
I really convinced that I like boys. I want to have a serious relationship with them. I just, don't want any closeted guys, which is hard to look for in this country.
I'm 23 btw.
Oh I forget to mention that we use gay and bisexual interchangeably in Indonesia.
And, I am very sure that I like women. I get turned on by them too....I just, want guys, more than women....
I don't hangout with women, I only friends with guys. But I am generally nice towards women. The problem is, I had girls telling me that they liked me. The latest breakout just recently.
A few days ago, a girl was crying to me that she liked me. I don't know what to do.....I told her that I like men, then she got angry. The next day, she brought the whole platoon of her family to force me to marry her. The main problem is, her parent doesn't believe me that I'm gay! They thought that I only said that to reject her and they thought that I consider the girl to be, err, not good looking. But I'm not! They say that I don't look 'gay' at all....I don't understand...I don't know how gay is supposed to be? I never knew how to be feminine and all....
So help me, I'm serious....please....and an advice on how should I behave when things like this happening again.
Oh, they also pointed at the fact that I'm still single. And I never had any relationship before. So, they are trying to make myself to believe that I'm just trying to rebelling by being gay.
I really convinced that I like boys. I want to have a serious relationship with them. I just, don't want any closeted guys, which is hard to look for in this country.
I'm 23 btw.
Oh I forget to mention that we use gay and bisexual interchangeably in Indonesia.
And, I am very sure that I like women. I get turned on by them too....I just, want guys, more than women....