i am very possessive of my fiance...i hate when he has female friends..well most of his female friends want to be more than friends with him and they know he is engaged to me but yet they still hit on him...then he wonders why i get mad and dont want him to talk to them...i dont want to seem controlling because im reall ynot..i really dont mind if he has female friends, its just that they dont respect the fact that he is taken...even if he has a female friend that doesnt hit on him and is actually just looking for friendship i still get possessive...is it a trust thing i have? because yes he does have a past of cheating on me but i know 200% he hasnt cheated recently...how can i stop being so possessive?well is it really being possessive or is it a trust issue, or both at that matter?...either way, how can i help myself change?