My family has always had a problem with communication and the way we communicate. Is we don't. And when ever I try to bring up something important that I want to do, my mother will shove me away like my dreams are some joke just so she can talk to her friends on msn that she has never really met. And dad's always busy with work and renovations that I'm afraid to disturb him. I don't know what to do, and councilors at school and friends aren't helpings, my siblings keep saying to say something and get what I want out there, but they just don't listen. I don't know what to do, I want them to see what I see for my future but its a hurtle that seems impossible to cross. I'm in grade 10, I need to start planning my life for after schooling is over. Should I build a bridge to my dad to get closer to him, or snap my mom out of her computer addiction? I'm totally lost. Help please!