My husband and I have been together for 7 years. She was 12 when we met. She was his one and only. I knew this and tried to keep it close to that, but my hubby thought she'd turned into a brat. We moved away and the mom in-law folowed us, she even moved next door! I've tried my best with these people, but nothing seems to work, I'm always the bitch for some dumb reason. My hubby cheated on me with sisters bff. Hubby claims to have not slept with her only kissed and touched (other witness agree) but the sister and bff made up a story 1 week later that bff was prego and keeping it, then she miraculously had a miscarriage. She refused to be in our wedding because she didn't beleive in our marraige, so she wasn't. Later on she appoligized and admitted that they made it up, but had no real reason they did it. I let it go aftre awhile and things were o.k. I could tell she still had it out for me she would come to my house and be a total bitch rude sit on the couch and pout like i made her come to my home. Recently she posted some things about me on the net calling me a whore and what not. I approached her and asked if I did something to make her mad and she replied "yeah, you deleted ur myspace!! (can u beleive that!! ) but i'm over it no" I let it go gave her a ride so she we could talk, but she acted as if nothing was wrong. That really erked me that she could be big and tough on the net, but not to my face. So we recently had a dinner at my home to remeber a family member who has passed away, but I made it clear as did my husband that she was not invited to OUR home until she sincerly appoligized. She still has not, and blames me for not coming to the dinner. I do feel a little bad, but I feel she excluded herself, but disrespecting me I do not want someone who thinks i'm a whore in my home. So my sons b-day is coming up and she still has not called or came by because now i'm a real big whore for not including her in the dinner???!! Their brither and mom did not beleive me and i showed them and they said i had all rights to do and feel the way i do. I told them I don't understand and they said" YOU TOOK HER BROTHER AWAY" Thing is I've always tried to include, but my hubby serioisly does not like her for his own reasons. This situation is uncomfortable for everyone, but i have given into this little girl too many times and this time i think she went too far. I would appreciate some feed back and opinions from someone lookin in please help me i don't want to end up the bad guy when this little teeage brat had sabbatoged so much