How do I explain that I'm a lesbian? ?

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Kandyce

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Mmk. (this is my second question in an hour lol) I'm 14, and I'm a lesbian(yes I'm sure). My aunt(she's my guardian) knows that I'm a lesbian and all, she's know since early December, but she dosent accept it. Accually, I'm not even allowed to have sleep overs anymore. I kind of understand why, but get this; we go to saphora all the time because we all love makeup. They put one in the mall about five miniutes from where I live, and my aunt wouldn't take me there for like 2 months(even though she had gone and taken my cousin several times) because a gay guy wors there and she "wouldn't want me to get influenced." She said that she won't accept it until I explain to her why I'm a lesbian... HOW DO YOU EXPLAIN THAT?! That's like asking why I was born a girl! Please help me explain this to my aunt...
 
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dee

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Hmm this is a tough one...just try to tell her that being a lesbian doesn't change who you are as a person it just so happened that you were born that way. It's not like you got up one morning and said hey i'm going to like only girls from now on...i know you should be respectful to your aunt but ask her if she could possibly explain how she's straight...try not to bee disrespectful tho but use that to bring your point across and tell her that it's an attraction that you can't help and that you hope that she'll still love you even tho you don't conform to societies expectations (ie. dating guys and getting married to a guy in the future)...i tried my best i hope this helps you
 
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