How do I fix a mistake introducing myself to a girl I don't know?

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Rockfreak25

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Ok so I was browsing around facebook requesting people that had mutual friends with me, and I came across a girl that I don't know why but something just told me to get to get to know her. It was kinda that feeling that you hear about that you supposedly feel when you meet the girl that was meant to be with you. I've never even heard of her before. I've had plenty of girlfriends just our chemistry always started through friendship, they were never just a stranger I'd never met before. So what I did was I requested to be her friend on Facebook, and sent her a message that said " Well hey ****** =] I'm ****. And you're pretty damn gorgeous if you ask me. You wouldn't mind us getting to know each other a little would you ;]". Well unfortunately I messed up cause she didn't even respond back asking if she knows me or anything and declined my friend request (even though we have like 20 friends in common). Well I screwed up and somethings telling me to just give it one more shot. I seriously think it woulda been different if she knew what I was like, but unfortunately we never heard of eachother. And the thing thats making me listen to my instinct about giving it another shot is that she isn't even all like super sexy and hot, shes just average, and I still feel like this. So I don't think it's just my hormones. And well in this situation I don't know what to do to fix what I said, what to say, when to say it, and so forth. My gut is telling me to take just one more ( a 2nd) shot at it. Please help.
 
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shelby

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Meeting guys on the internet for some women is turn-off. Weather they be attractive or not. It's not your fault, she probably is just sensitive to the fact that a stranger messaged her out of no where telling her she's damn sexy. Perhaps you can explain.

"Hey I know this is weird, but you're just too beautiful to pass up and you know a few of my friends so maybe you could give me a chance."
 
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REDBULL

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Hi!

Well. first of all I dont think you messed up. You were just telling her frankly what you thought and like you said it is something to do with the hormones, age, etc,. But, some girls dont like to be told they are beautiful by complete strangers.

What I suggest,

Dont communicate with her through Facebook asking for an apology or something. You would look like a * if she doesnt communicate again. Since she is a mutual friend and you are really interested in her, ask your friends to give an Introduction (not through the internet).

If she says something about your Intro message on FB, you could tell her that ''I'm really sorry if it hurt you and I'm just a frank guy that told what came to my mind, but sorry nevertheless''.

If she doesnt bring up the subject, good for you. You know what to do next right?

All the Best! ;-)
 
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