How do I FIX this, I joked but now he's MAD...?

LN

New member
There was a guy who worked at my workplace for 2 months. His gf worked on the next floor. Today was his last day. Since his first day he would always try to talk to me, but I was reserved. He would ignore all the other girls but only talk to me. Eventually he found out I’m Russian & he knows some Russian (even though he’s NOT) & he would try to talk to me in Russian. He would try to make me laugh, flirt, & always come by my desk & initiate a conversation. HE is the one always initiates a conversation by coming to me. Then he ignored me for 2 weeks, but I also ignored him in those 2 weeks as I gave him his space. Then after 2 wks, he started talking to me again, not flirting so some, but trying to act interested in me again. I would respond to him but I was kinda cold to him. One day I got a haircut, he noticed & said my hair looked really good & asked if I had a date. Today he came by my desk & said “I just wanted to let you know that today is my last day. You must be happy, you won’t have to see me anymore” I just smiled and said oh that’s too bad. Then he asked me my age, I told him. I found out he’s 20, 5 yrs younger. So I said to him “So you’re just a baby” I meant it as a tease, I was smiling and I was trying to flirt. He said “A baby who was born in 1990” then walked away. Then I offend him? He did say bye to me before he left at end of day. Is he mad at me now? I might see him if he ever comes to see his gf at work, will he be mad at me? I don't want him to leave thinking I'm a B****. Should I try to fix this?
 

Katie

Active member
I don't think this guy who works in the same building as his girlfriend but is trying to get your attention is even worth one more thought. Who cares what he thinks of you, do you really need to have the approval of someone trying to scam his girlfriend?
 
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