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<blockquote data-quote="TweedilyDee" data-source="post: 2579307" data-attributes="member: 877033">I had a crush on a guy back in 6th grade and he was a friend of my brother but we both lost touch with him in high school at some point. After all these years (I&#039;m 31 now) he friended me on FB about a year ago and in November we discovered a mutual attraction toward each other. We live 2 hours apart but I knew I would be moving back to that area eventually. We spent as much time as we could together and then even though it was long distance we both made it clear that we were both curious and anxious to see where the relationship would go. We spent hours upon hours on the phone and I visited whenever I could. Being somewhat of a writer I wrote him letters and sent cards and he sent cards in return. A lot of hearts ans XOXOXO&#039;s sent on both parts. He even called me at 11:59 from a party so that he could be the first to wish me a happy new year. Despite the distance I felt as if I gave the relationship everything I could. Then in February we were texting and he misinterpreted something I wrote and I apologized over and over but he flipped out and all of a sudden it was &quot;I never want to talk to you ever again&quot;. I assumed he had a bad day or something else going on and left it alone for a few days. But then he wouldn&#039;t take my calls or respond to my texts and he deleted me from his FB. I called Cookies By Design and had an &quot;I&#039;m Sorry&quot; cookie basket sent to him (even though I wasn&#039;t sure what I was apologizing for). I have probably sent 3 or 4 letters pouring my heart out and begging him to at LEAST tell me what I did that lead up to him blowing up. That is all I want is an explanation of why things played out the way they did. I need closure.It&#039;s August now and I STILL find myself going back to it and it&#039;s SO frustrating because if it was just that his feelings changed ok but if I did something wrong I WANT TO KNOW so I know going forward. I need answers.&nbsp;How do I get him to talk to me, text me, email me, blackberry message me, blueberry message me, smoke signals, ANYTHING! It hurt me so badly and it&#039;s driving me crazy just not knowing why. Any suggestions? (Aside from give up, let it go, move on because I honestly don&#039;t have the strength to pick up and move forward because it STILL HURTS!) <img src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f631.png" class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" width="64" height="64" alt=":o" title="Eek!&nbsp; &nbsp; :o"&nbsp; data-smilie="9"data-shortname=":o" />(</blockquote>

[QUOTE="TweedilyDee, post: 2579307, member: 877033"] I had a crush on a guy back in 6th grade and he was a friend of my brother but we both lost touch with him in high school at some point. After all these years (I'm 31 now) he friended me on FB about a year ago and in November we discovered a mutual attraction toward each other. We live 2 hours apart but I knew I would be moving back to that area eventually. We spent as much time as we could together and then even though it was long distance we both made it clear that we were both curious and anxious to see where the relationship would go. We spent hours upon hours on the phone and I visited whenever I could. Being somewhat of a writer I wrote him letters and sent cards and he sent cards in return. A lot of hearts ans XOXOXO's sent on both parts. He even called me at 11:59 from a party so that he could be the first to wish me a happy new year. Despite the distance I felt as if I gave the relationship everything I could. Then in February we were texting and he misinterpreted something I wrote and I apologized over and over but he flipped out and all of a sudden it was "I never want to talk to you ever again". I assumed he had a bad day or something else going on and left it alone for a few days. But then he wouldn't take my calls or respond to my texts and he deleted me from his FB. I called Cookies By Design and had an "I'm Sorry" cookie basket sent to him (even though I wasn't sure what I was apologizing for). I have probably sent 3 or 4 letters pouring my heart out and begging him to at LEAST tell me what I did that lead up to him blowing up. That is all I want is an explanation of why things played out the way they did. I need closure. It's August now and I STILL find myself going back to it and it's SO frustrating because if it was just that his feelings changed ok but if I did something wrong I WANT TO KNOW so I know going forward. I need answers. How do I get him to talk to me, text me, email me, blackberry message me, blueberry message me, smoke signals, ANYTHING! It hurt me so badly and it's driving me crazy just not knowing why. Any suggestions? (Aside from give up, let it go, move on because I honestly don't have the strength to pick up and move forward because it STILL HURTS!) :o( [/QUOTE]

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