uncles) to my wedding? My family for the most part is very racist, and my fiance is of mixed race (his mom is caucasian and his dad is black). This makes him somewhat acceptable to them because he's not "all black" (horrible, I know). His dad, on the other hand, would pose a problem. I love my family and have tried to open their minds, but they are not going to change. Our wedding will be very small (aprx 30, only our parents, siblings and closest friends) so I can kinda get away with not inviting aunts and uncles but my grandmother? I just don't know how to politely not invite her! I refuse to give into to their prejudice by ignoring their behavior and I don't want my wedding to be ruined because of tension. Please help, I am so sick over this.