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<blockquote data-quote="Matt" data-source="post: 2622164" data-attributes="member: 208436"><p>in the past two years i was in a long distance relationship, and in the last month i decided to change that by moving in with her half way across the country, right now i have not found work, and she does not have a job as of three weeks ago. her house is being forclosed, we have four days to move out and no place to go. if she drops the restraining order on he ex. he will payback all the past due mortgage basically saving the house, and thus proving that he still controls her. we have a place that looks like we could move into but we can only afford it for the first month. then we would have to move out, and we still have many thing to pack up and no where near enough time to do it, she had an interveiw today for a good job and looks like they will hire her, but i still haven&#039;t found work yet. if she gives into her ex then im going to lose her. i am so desperate for solid advice that im actually looking for answers here. i know i&#039;ll be ok because i still have an out i can go back home and back to my old job, but i would be absolutely heartbroken and be severely depressed for a long time, because i know i wont be able to mentally and financhally to come back to her down the road... i am so lost right now and need help...</p></blockquote><p></p>

[QUOTE="Matt, post: 2622164, member: 208436"] in the past two years i was in a long distance relationship, and in the last month i decided to change that by moving in with her half way across the country, right now i have not found work, and she does not have a job as of three weeks ago. her house is being forclosed, we have four days to move out and no place to go. if she drops the restraining order on he ex. he will payback all the past due mortgage basically saving the house, and thus proving that he still controls her. we have a place that looks like we could move into but we can only afford it for the first month. then we would have to move out, and we still have many thing to pack up and no where near enough time to do it, she had an interveiw today for a good job and looks like they will hire her, but i still haven't found work yet. if she gives into her ex then im going to lose her. i am so desperate for solid advice that im actually looking for answers here. i know i'll be ok because i still have an out i can go back home and back to my old job, but i would be absolutely heartbroken and be severely depressed for a long time, because i know i wont be able to mentally and financhally to come back to her down the road... i am so lost right now and need help... [/QUOTE]

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