She's 13 and constantly calling people "n*ggers" and words like this. I try to tell her that it's inappropriate and that the color of someone's skin has no barring on who they are as a person. It's completely disgusting to me. Along with that it's people that are bigger or just people she doesn't find attractive, even our 11 year old sister, who is underweight as it is. I just don't understand how to make her be a more considerate caring person. Because as it stands right now she is not someone I want to be around. Help?