Soontobemummyt
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- Jul 29, 2010
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My mother and I never got along as she kicked me out at 15years old because she coulnt handle a teenager and was more devoted to her boyfriend and drinking....I stooped down to her level and tried to be friends as I didnt want to lose another parent (my dad died 2 years ago). It was ok but lot of dramas happened after that were I was rushed to the hospital and she never came...things went rocky and when I found out I was pregnant, she told me to either get an abortion or she wants nothing to do with me at all. And I dont believe in abortions, I dont believe I should take someones life away to have a rocky relationship wth a so called mother and I was stable with a great boyfriend, now fiance.
Im now 19.2 weeks pregnant and my fiance and I were wondering how do we tell our kid in the future that I dont have any parents? I dont want to tell my kid that the grandma didnt want me or her/him in her life....And I dont want to lie and say that she died because it wont be fair when they grow up.
Does any one have and suggesions on how to explain it all easy to our child when he/she is born?
Sorry for this question being so long and sorry if half of it makes no sense, I have a splitting headache lol
Thanks people! xox
Im now 19.2 weeks pregnant and my fiance and I were wondering how do we tell our kid in the future that I dont have any parents? I dont want to tell my kid that the grandma didnt want me or her/him in her life....And I dont want to lie and say that she died because it wont be fair when they grow up.
Does any one have and suggesions on how to explain it all easy to our child when he/she is born?
Sorry for this question being so long and sorry if half of it makes no sense, I have a splitting headache lol
Thanks people! xox