How do tell some one to just enjoy life and stop complaining all the time?

Nessapoo

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ok my I'm 20 years old and my sister is 22. i love my sister and all its just she complains all the time about any little thing especially her job . She works at Target in the bakery and she hates her boss and comes home from work everyday and complains about the same lady and how she can't leave because she has to pay bills and how they won't let her move to a different department because they "need" her and she is one the best workers they got and that her boss don't know what she is doing and she knows more than every one else. Blahh Blahh Blahh right , but I tell her that she doesn't have to stay no where if she doesn't want to and its not like she has alot of bills and she still lives at home with mom so she can look for something else if she wants, but when i say that its more excuses about how they won't let her and crap like that. I know we all have our bad days but when it gets to the point when you talk about your job literally every single day for literally an hour 1/2 it gets annoying and brings everybody elses mood down. Its really that bad she is negative about every little thing and i try to be supportive and try to understand her stiuation but its like she wants to be angry with something no matter what it is just to have something to complain about. I wish she would just shut up already but when i tell her that she gets angry and thinks I'm being stupid and don't understand her but its like I UNDERSTAND i don't want to keep hearing about it. WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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