I guess it sounds like I am gossiping when I ask this question, however, we have a friend and everytime she sees Chuck and I, she starts gossiping about someone. I hate getting caught up in gossip as we are talking behind someone's back and it is wrong. What do you do when someone starts gossiping to you. I try to change the subject, but it doesn't work and I feel so guilty when I am in the store and see her, and I turn and go the other way and I know that is mean and I dislike my self when I do that. So the question is, what do you do when someone starts gossiping to you???