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Message: <blockquote data-quote="GruntledEmployee" data-source="post: 2530798" data-attributes="member: 286679">Well if you know the person she's talking about you and you want to defend her you could just say "that hasn't been my experience with her. she musn't be like that all the time. *insert example*"if you do know the person and you agree with them but don't want to be a gossip say "she can be a bit like that sometimes, but i'm a bit like that too."if you don't know the person just say "i don't really know so maybe we can talk about something else she's not here to defend herself."or if you simply don't want to talk about it at all just say "can't you say anything good about anybody" or "let's talk about something else.. she's not here to defend herself."</blockquote>