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<blockquote data-quote="Munro23" data-source="post: 1498022" data-attributes="member: 592870">Sorry - a bit of a ramblei&#039;ve been with my gf for over four years now. I managed to pursuade her to live with me at uni and we had two great years being with each a lot, sharing our lives etc. After uni, we both moved back to our parents for a little while. She is still there, but I moved out with a friend in to a a flat. I really wanted to live with my gf again, but she refused saying that she wanted to save up some more money/sort a job out etc. I was upset by this (she had a job, albeit not her dream one - and had enough money to move out) but I also kind of understood her position so respected it.Now I have to share her with her mum all the time! She never comes to my flat without some pursuasion. And if she does come here, then there&#039;s always a time limit. E.g. she has to leave by 6 on a sunday.I just feel that since we are both mid-twenties, both in jobs, and have been together for a serious amount of time, why does it still have to be like this!I feel like i&#039;m constantly having to wait around for her.What do you think? Am i in the wrong? Should she be a little more willing to spend time with me? Is there a compromise we should meet?It&#039;s really getting me down.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Munro23, post: 1498022, member: 592870"] Sorry - a bit of a ramble i've been with my gf for over four years now. I managed to pursuade her to live with me at uni and we had two great years being with each a lot, sharing our lives etc. After uni, we both moved back to our parents for a little while. She is still there, but I moved out with a friend in to a a flat. I really wanted to live with my gf again, but she refused saying that she wanted to save up some more money/sort a job out etc. I was upset by this (she had a job, albeit not her dream one - and had enough money to move out) but I also kind of understood her position so respected it. Now I have to share her with her mum all the time! She never comes to my flat without some pursuasion. And if she does come here, then there's always a time limit. E.g. she has to leave by 6 on a sunday. I just feel that since we are both mid-twenties, both in jobs, and have been together for a serious amount of time, why does it still have to be like this! I feel like i'm constantly having to wait around for her. What do you think? Am i in the wrong? Should she be a little more willing to spend time with me? Is there a compromise we should meet? It's really getting me down. [/QUOTE]

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