I met the love of my life 10 months ago.She has a 4 year old.She is also pregnant with my own at the moment.The father of my gf son died in a accident when he was 1.I try to bond with him but every thing we do just ends up in me being irretated and angry.He never seems to listen to a word that is said to him and this makes it difficult for me to teach him something or take him some where.I still try.Because of this I am constantly irretated because he just doesnt listen to a word any one says to him.I thought of buying him a 4 wheeler so that he can keep him self busy but then Im going to have to teach him and he will probly end up hurting him self cause he wouldnt of listened when I told him where the brakes where.I firmly believes he has ADD\ADHD but my gf does not want to hear a word about this.He asked recently if I was his father,I didnt know what to say?He knows who hes real father is and lately is dwelling on that.Does any one have advise for me?