careless_angel
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- Oct 24, 2008
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hi, i've just come out of a year long up and down relationship...which was the worse relationship of my life..i've never been so mistreated and betrayed in my life..i'm a very forgiving and patient person, and i think that this guy used this to his advantage..anyway..i had to let him go after the second time he messed up..and it was hard but I did it
its been two months..and i've been seeing other guys and meeting new people..and i don't want this other guy back people...it's just that when I meet these new guys..i always feel like they are going to hurt me and that they are going to just use me like the other guy did...I give them chances and I don't judge them off-hand I spend time with them, and i'm happy around them, but in the back of my mind...i just feel like it's temporary and it's not going to last...like everytime he tells me something it's like no he's lying..and i start to think that he's just making up excuses like the last guy who i just stopped talking to....how can i get out of thinking that everyone is going to just use and mistreat me.
its been two months..and i've been seeing other guys and meeting new people..and i don't want this other guy back people...it's just that when I meet these new guys..i always feel like they are going to hurt me and that they are going to just use me like the other guy did...I give them chances and I don't judge them off-hand I spend time with them, and i'm happy around them, but in the back of my mind...i just feel like it's temporary and it's not going to last...like everytime he tells me something it's like no he's lying..and i start to think that he's just making up excuses like the last guy who i just stopped talking to....how can i get out of thinking that everyone is going to just use and mistreat me.