Mrsknowitalle
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Ok here's the thing. My fiance and I are both in our 20's ,been going out for 2 years and living together for 1year. We will be married this summer. We have an AMAZING relationship with its ups and downs of course but it's great! well not really..Our sex life is non existent because of my low sex drive or maybe because we are not sexually compatible.Sometimes I get really frustrated over it because He complains about it a lot and I want to be good for him. He has been patient about not pushing and asking but I think he has reached his breaking point! the worst part is that we can't even kiss!!!! so I'm wondering do I have a low sex drive or are we just not compatible in that way.Our relationship is too good to let this ruin it.I'm desperate, I don't know what else to do , I've ate all the exotic fruits and try to convince myself that I love sex and want to do it all the time when I know deep inside I don't. I was thinking about seeing a counselor but it's going to cost me and my financial situation doesn't permit me to do so ( I go to school and work full time).Please help. I want HONEST answers only (especially from grown adults) Thank you
PS: I always reach an orgasm during sex but he sucks at foreplay, he doesn't know how to be sexy and flirt so I'm not sure if it's the reason why I'm never interested in sex
PS: I always reach an orgasm during sex but he sucks at foreplay, he doesn't know how to be sexy and flirt so I'm not sure if it's the reason why I'm never interested in sex