i'm 17 and i kind of have problems with trying to pick up girls at malls or other places. i've had a girlfriends i'm not that shy. when i know them i can talk to them easily. its just with new people that i've never met before. its kind of hard for me to start a conversation when talking to a random person. i never know what to say to a person at the beginning.. if i could get some help on this i'd really appreciate this..