How To Sweet Talk...my mother.?

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Okay,
im 14
and i want my bottom lip pierced (on the right)
and i want my nose pierced (on the left)
my mom wont budge. she said that no way in her life,
will she let me get them (unless im 18) i dont wanna wait that long.
give me some advice on what to do...
i asked her why and this is what she said,
"no, because in the "professional world" you cant wear them. and if you let it close back up it will leave a noticable scar. and whether you want to be a fashion designer/photographer or not, it still wont look good." i need your help!!!
 
You only want to get it done so that people will look at you and think wow how cool, a 14 year old with piercings. Trust me Ive been there, wait until you are older and then decide. I know plenty of people who regret the facial piercings they got when they were younger.
 
i don't think you should get that done your only 14 but you should just tell her your reasons of why you should get it done and why you think its so cool
 
i know how you feel on that one, but here's a bit of advice, get a picture of yourself and draw the piercings where you want them, then stick it up on your mirror in your wallet or a place where you at all the time. Then decide if you really want them or not. You're young, give it time; i know waiting is tough but you never know you might regret it when you're older.
 
well u can learn her signature and use it on the form or u can take a aunt or someone with u instide of ur mom and get it and she cant make u take it out cuz it will get a scar and she probably wont like that
 
Mother knows best, those aren't really in anymore and somewhat trashy. Do you really want a hole in your nose and lip when you decide to take them out?
 
Why do you want to get them so much? Ask yourself.
Because of peer pressure? Because you want to look punk, or "cool"?

You're going to regret it later. It is better to wait, to see what the young mind thinks next year. Things change easily when you're a teen.

And sounds like there is nothing you can do. Your mom won't budge. Nothing will change her mind, because you're still young and she can tell you what to do.
 
Your mom is right and you should wait till your 18 and then you won't need her permission.
 
Apparently I see that your answerers to your question are stating that your desire for facial piercings is not the best choice. They are society to you, the real world. Maybe your desire for facial piercings is social norm in your school-- but the thing about public school is they are closed enviroments where the different have a harder time, but when you're in college like me people dress as they like, but its weird, where the open society bangs on the people who still think they are in high-school. I'm just saying that your anwerers are the real deal, they look down on facial piercings, high-school won't last forever, kid.
 
Okay I am 15 and here is my advice. Wait six months, and if you still want it done six months from now, then ask this question. Last year I wanted to gage my ears really bad and now I'm like EW! What was I thinking? So wait, then come back and ask this question. Personally, I think it's all about free expression, and you are fourteen, so why does your mom want you to be professional?
 
Okay I am 15 and here is my advice. Wait six months, and if you still want it done six months from now, then ask this question. Last year I wanted to gage my ears really bad and now I'm like EW! What was I thinking? So wait, then come back and ask this question. Personally, I think it's all about free expression, and you are fourteen, so why does your mom want you to be professional?
 
well my sister ALWAY gets her way and i noticed that she acts really nice to my mm and shes always like "I love u mom!!" ad shes alway like "why do u hate me?!" but after she gether stuff shes really mean
 
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