finestambiguity
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I'm a 28-year-old male and she's 22 and we started hooking up a few weeks ago. Thing is, she has a lot of qualities I do not enjoy (smokes, not my ideal physical appearance, pretty much a dead fish) so my interest in her as faded. We have not spoken or seen each other for almost a week. She seemed to enjoy my company (I got confused at one point, misjudging her behavior as her wanting something more serious to which I asked her about and she said it was the complete opposite. [p.s. girls, quit sending confusing signals like this]).
You might ask, "Well, if she does a lot of things you don't like, why did you continue sleeping with her?" She made the moves first and well, I'm a guy, so go figure. :]
In any another circumstance, I would be upfront with her and honest and give her the disheartening news. However, since we both know the same people (a good lesson learned: never fraternize with people in the same group of friends; stick to outsiders), it's very probable that we're going to be around each other (thus making it awkward). I do not enjoy hurting anyone's feelings, so what is the best method to make it clear to her that whatever involvement we had has extinguished for the most part while sparing the feelings as much as I can?
You might ask, "Well, if she does a lot of things you don't like, why did you continue sleeping with her?" She made the moves first and well, I'm a guy, so go figure. :]
In any another circumstance, I would be upfront with her and honest and give her the disheartening news. However, since we both know the same people (a good lesson learned: never fraternize with people in the same group of friends; stick to outsiders), it's very probable that we're going to be around each other (thus making it awkward). I do not enjoy hurting anyone's feelings, so what is the best method to make it clear to her that whatever involvement we had has extinguished for the most part while sparing the feelings as much as I can?