If something good happens?No offense, but thats not a very smart question. If you think of it like that, if you never smile, you will never get any better. And since you aren't smileing now. Nothing will ever get better.Cheer up emo kid.
This is a rather interesting question.'How will i laugh tommorow when i can't even simle today......' What is the asker seeking? Are they seeking a remedy to the pain they are suffering, or are they asking what they need to do to get past a pain they have caused?Such a tricky question. And easily explained in regards to human tendances and thought patterns.We, as a social kind, tend to interact with people, even when we are in pain. We let others know what the problems are, we let others seek something within us that allows them to either 1. understand, or 2. feel our pain. Because of this, we allow people to help heal our pain and grief on a more 'naturalistic' means than any other creature out there.To me, the asker is seeking some sort of remedy to cure a massive internal pain that they have either witnessed, caused or been affected by. The only advice or comments that i can direct back to the asker is this:Time. it is the eternal heal all. Through the minutes, hours, days, weeks and months that these events drift away, we learn. We seek information to overcome such pains. We seek the knowledge that though these pains have taken place, we must continue on.For me, when faced with such pain, i have to understand that I must go on. Life can not simply STOP for me. Life will always continue; either with me or without, it is eternal. It is perhaps one of the only constants that we, has humans, need to understand. It is one of the main constants that we has humans fail to understand when we are in pain.Try to understand the event or issue that has caused this pain or grief. Try to understand what the interaction of this event is to others around you, as well as to yourself. Try to understand that though you may have caused, or been apart of this pain, or even in the case that you have not caused or been a part of the issuance of this event, that in the end, it is YOU who must deal with the effects. To smile today, is to say that I KNOW. I know what has happened. I know what will happen again. I know what is needed to be done. I know what is needed for me to be. I know. To laugh tommorow is to say that I UNDERSTAND. I understand what has happened. I understand what i need to do. I understnad that the pain is transitory and must pass for me to continue on living.I know. I understand. And i must continue on. These are the 3 most important things to remember when faced with such greif or pain as described by the asker in his/her question.Let the calming echos of time pass. Let the people around you, and yourself KNOW AND UNDERSTAND that the pain must pass. Work THROUGH and not against the greif. And finally, let go. Let the pain just go away, don't hold onto the event that has taken place, instead hold onto the memory of the focus of the event's happening (such as a person or item that has been lost or something similar.) Remember this focus for what it has been, not for what it is now. And remember, and understand that though the event has taken place, the focus of that event still remains, even when gone forever.How will you laugh, how will you smile. I think you will. I know you will. I understand that you will. Because, time, in the end, is the cure all for any greif.
the other answers are good , but i don't think it has to be that difficult or time consuming. don't worry so much about the laughing. just a simple smile goes a long way. why smile u ask. because u awoke to another day of life. and another day of life is another chance at living. for if u died this nite that u'll never know what treasures that may await u. just too add, that things always get better. may not be when u expect it, or exactly what u wanted,but they get better. and when they do, think of where u were, and where u are now. and thank God. besides there is always someone worst off than u.