children? My Fiance has 2 children from a previous relationship. They live with us as their mother committed suicide. They are 5 and 3. I want to have my own child one day but I am afraid of what might happen to me if I do. I am now the mother of 2 small girls who have already last one mother. I don't want to put them through anything like that again. I just want to know if it is safe and what should i be worried about?