...love interest spend time together alone? So I started seeing a girl about 4 months ago. About a month into the relationship she started talking about her male best friend and her relationship past. Met four years ago, she fell for him, he continuously shoots her down. She sees other people over the four years but no one that takes any time away from her friend.
A month or two in to the relationship friend tells her that now he's ready, he wants to be with her. She says no. Friend thretens to end relationship with her unless she will be with him, she still says no. For a month we spend all our time together - friend decides he wants back in her life - they resume their routine multi night a week visits.
I see her maybe two nights a week now, he probably sees her more often. I only met this boy in passing, and he on multiple occasions has refused to meet me.
Pretty much from the start I realized that my choices where, get over my insecurity and be with her, or end the relationship.
She's great- probably the best fit of any girl I have dated - I am 29. Is this worth Pursuing?
A month or two in to the relationship friend tells her that now he's ready, he wants to be with her. She says no. Friend thretens to end relationship with her unless she will be with him, she still says no. For a month we spend all our time together - friend decides he wants back in her life - they resume their routine multi night a week visits.
I see her maybe two nights a week now, he probably sees her more often. I only met this boy in passing, and he on multiple occasions has refused to meet me.
Pretty much from the start I realized that my choices where, get over my insecurity and be with her, or end the relationship.
She's great- probably the best fit of any girl I have dated - I am 29. Is this worth Pursuing?