going to work.? She has struggled, but did make payments.* However, a few were late.* Now she lost her job. Its been two weeks and she gets sarcastic with me when I ask her about getting a job.* She tells me she knows what she needs to do, but no attempt is being made. I put the car in the paper to sell.* She got upset, stating that's great, after all the money she has put into it.* I am concerned with my credit.* I can not refinance, late too many times. I feel I need to take the car away. I feel I have lost control.* I just don't want to be mean or come across as a threat. She comes and goes when she pleases.* What the best way to approach this situation?* I work two jobs and I'm exhausted.* I think I should ask for the keys to the car and house key.* Would that be too harsh? I just don't want to turn my back on my daughter.