My husband and I have been together for 4 years and married for one. (I'm 20) When we had sex in the beginning I would get very excited/aroused..mostly because I had nazi parents and I knew if they found out I'd be dead so I liked the challenge.. And I dont know.. it was new and exciting..Now I rarely want to have sex. I never get turned on and I certainly don't initiate sex. Sometimes we'll go a few months without sex.. How can I make myself turned on more? Or make sex more enjoyable?