But it made me so mad, and I have to get rid of it. I had gotten off the phone with a friend who happens to be a guy, he really is a good friend of mine. My dad rudely just BARGED in while I was getting off the phone. Every time the two of us, or with any good friend, get off the phone with each other we exchange I love yous, just as a friend thing. It's different than I'm in love with you. Well my dad's like what was that about? So I explain I had just got off the phone with a good friend and he's like, girl RIGHT? I just wanted to punch him in the face. But I'm like yeah... a girl. What am I not allowed to have guy friends? But he just ignored that question and moves on with whatever he wanted to talk about.
Would you be mad? Because I'm furious, he does stupid stuff like this all the time. It's to the point where it feels as if I'm going to break the next time he talks to me. It stresses me out so much, and you can't talk to him about it! He just ignores it and points your flaws out. Like how messy the upstairs is, well if you clean me and my sister's stuff up you'll notice most of it is YOURS, dad. But he'll never admit it, and you can't tell him because he'll flip out on you.
What's a good way to deal with the stress and anger I'm getting from all this? I want to cry every time he does stuff like this, not because I cry a lot but because he does it a lot.
I'm pretty sure he doesn't listen to my conversations, but he does tend to ask a lot of questions if he knows I'm on the phone.
Thank you for replying, it does make me feel better knowing I'm not the only one who would be mad.
I know he's looking after me, but there is a limit you know? There's no harm is talking to a male friend, is there? I feel so boxed in, I really do. I've never done anything that has gotten me in too much trouble so he shouldn't worry about me sneaking around.
I'm 15 nearly 16. I was on my mobile phone. I think that if your daughter does her home work she should be allowed to talk on the phone, because she's so young you can just sneak a peek at who she called when she's not awake or something. But if she doesn't do her homework then she shouldn't be allowed on her phone.
Yeah my sister is almost 21 and she get's stressed over it too. (She's still at home because she was really sick for a few years.) We talk to each other about it and go on drives to cool down because my dad gets so worked up so easily, and we don't like to tell him things we dislike because he usually get's pretty mad.
A letter seems like a good idea, once he does that to me again I'll write him one. Because he will do it.
Would you be mad? Because I'm furious, he does stupid stuff like this all the time. It's to the point where it feels as if I'm going to break the next time he talks to me. It stresses me out so much, and you can't talk to him about it! He just ignores it and points your flaws out. Like how messy the upstairs is, well if you clean me and my sister's stuff up you'll notice most of it is YOURS, dad. But he'll never admit it, and you can't tell him because he'll flip out on you.
What's a good way to deal with the stress and anger I'm getting from all this? I want to cry every time he does stuff like this, not because I cry a lot but because he does it a lot.
I'm pretty sure he doesn't listen to my conversations, but he does tend to ask a lot of questions if he knows I'm on the phone.
Thank you for replying, it does make me feel better knowing I'm not the only one who would be mad.
I know he's looking after me, but there is a limit you know? There's no harm is talking to a male friend, is there? I feel so boxed in, I really do. I've never done anything that has gotten me in too much trouble so he shouldn't worry about me sneaking around.
I'm 15 nearly 16. I was on my mobile phone. I think that if your daughter does her home work she should be allowed to talk on the phone, because she's so young you can just sneak a peek at who she called when she's not awake or something. But if she doesn't do her homework then she shouldn't be allowed on her phone.
Yeah my sister is almost 21 and she get's stressed over it too. (She's still at home because she was really sick for a few years.) We talk to each other about it and go on drives to cool down because my dad gets so worked up so easily, and we don't like to tell him things we dislike because he usually get's pretty mad.
A letter seems like a good idea, once he does that to me again I'll write him one. Because he will do it.