I dont know what to do!Help?

Right, so I have a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel who is nearly 6 months old. I have wanted a dog all my life but now I feel like I want rid of her, and my Mum doesnt help the situation either. My Mum is always spoling her even if she has done something bad she will tell her " clever girl" for nothing so it is giving her mixed messages. When I wake up in the morning I go downstairs and find that my Mum has give the dog my new bag to rip to shreads,my Dad's new shirt or some cooking utensils to chew, she will be wiping the floor up where the dog has defaced with a kitchen towel that we use on our hands! My dad nearly had her trained properly and now thats went all out of the window and I feel I am the one who has to take over because he has just gave up. We have told my Mum not to pet her so much. When we take her for a walk we let her sniff around but when we get home she just does her buissness on the floor and I feel like crying coz i feel I cant deal with it all and I have to deal with current and past major health problems and its driving me insane! I am trying to recover from operations and it is upsetting me putting in pointless efforts of training when I am ill because I get so tired and I feel my Mum doesn't care. I feel like i shouldnt have to deal with it and just want to be at school studying for my A levels than dealing with this.For example I went downstairs before in the kitchen and the dog had peed on the floor and my Mum was just sitting there, the dog was in the basket eating a potato and I went to pick up to tell her off and put her outside; she really growled at me and Mum just acknowledged that with an " AWWW leave her alone Charlotte" then she bit me drawing blood so I put her outside and it seemed as if my Mum didnt even notice I was bleeding so I went upstairs to treat my hand when I went back she had her back in the kitchen and was playing with her!! So I had to be firm and practically tell my own mother off and she replied with " JUST GET OUT OF OUT SIGHT CHARLOTTE!YOUR USELESS GET BACK TO WHERE YOU CAME FROM!" which I dont understand and it upset me. I am sick of the dog getting her own way she rules the house and gets away with it! I mean if I had a crap on the floor or took a wizz on the settee I would be out! Lol. I am sick of her barking constantly too if she wants attention. Its sicking because my Dad is a brilliant dog trainer he had 4 dogs before our current and they were gems apparently but we cant deal with her even though we have trained her correctly. I also witnessed my Mum sneakily feeding her so now the dog is not eating her meals! HELP! All the time I feel like hitting her but I obviously dont- I wouldn't and dont have the strength too anyway Lol. We got this dog to bring family together not to tear us apart! I dont know what to do anymore! :(

Thanks xx sorry if that was a bit long winded lol x
 

JohnD

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i had the same problem i always wanted a puppy when i was yougner and i finally got one and i never took care of it my parents did and they gave it away
 
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