SarahJackson
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- Oct 13, 2010
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hmmm so I am seeing a guy, and he is a lot older then me as I'm 20 and he is 32.
Anyway we both mutually agreed not to dive into anything serious but he has made it clear that he does eventually want a relationship once we get to know each other better. He's nice and we get on really well, but the other day i noticed bobby pins on his lounge floor. he lives by himself, and doesn't have a sister... I wouldn't be suspicious if it wasn't for the fact that I know he saw me glancing at them because when i returned from the bathroom the bobby pins disappeared.. I didn't make a fuss, or let him know what i was thinking, but I don't want to continually see him if he's not trust worthy. It's hard to figure out what to do because we get on so well. I don't want to appear clingy or needy as-well, HELP!
Haha no he is not a pot head, thankfully! yes I am young, but I'm extremely mature for my age, most of my friends are aged 25-35 onwards.
I guess i am asking how should I react to this? is it ok for me too look away as we are not serious yet...?
ohh and thank you for your kind message, if I wanted to be a drama queen I'd make a fuss to him in person, my question is not about me whining, it's more about do I have a right to to be a bit suspicious, and just leave him to it. Gosh, age has nothing to do with it.
Anyway we both mutually agreed not to dive into anything serious but he has made it clear that he does eventually want a relationship once we get to know each other better. He's nice and we get on really well, but the other day i noticed bobby pins on his lounge floor. he lives by himself, and doesn't have a sister... I wouldn't be suspicious if it wasn't for the fact that I know he saw me glancing at them because when i returned from the bathroom the bobby pins disappeared.. I didn't make a fuss, or let him know what i was thinking, but I don't want to continually see him if he's not trust worthy. It's hard to figure out what to do because we get on so well. I don't want to appear clingy or needy as-well, HELP!
Haha no he is not a pot head, thankfully! yes I am young, but I'm extremely mature for my age, most of my friends are aged 25-35 onwards.
I guess i am asking how should I react to this? is it ok for me too look away as we are not serious yet...?
ohh and thank you for your kind message, if I wanted to be a drama queen I'd make a fuss to him in person, my question is not about me whining, it's more about do I have a right to to be a bit suspicious, and just leave him to it. Gosh, age has nothing to do with it.