Okay long story. So this christmas my dads side of the family got together. It was christmas eve and and also my grandmothers birthday. My dad has a thing with forgetting about me,my mom, and my sister when he is around his mom, sister, and brother. So of course he was all into his moms birthday. So my aunt got my grandmother this really yummy looking cake and i wanted a piece so bad. But when my grandmother was given the cake she had all my little cousins and stick their faces into the cake-trying to be cute and funny i assume. Everyone was so happy except me. I was so grossed out becuase they are little and they were licking and slobbering all over the cake and i find that repulsive. So i left with my older cousin and sat on the couch. We were talking about tv when her dad (my uncle) comes up to her and starts yelling at her because she wasnt eating cake. He said that she was "humble" and should not be acting like me. basically he said i was a bad influence and she should not do what i do. So i was mad. Then my dad came and started yelling at me saying i was a spoiled brat becuase i ruined his mothers birthday. I was crying by then. Then my aunt came up to me and yelled at me because i was being spoiled and basically saying that she wished she could change me. Saying how diffrent i was from everyone in the family and i was badly influencing everyone around me. My mom came to talk to me and she made me feel better but i was still so mad at my dad,uncle, and aunt. the rest of the vacation was horrible. My grandmother of course was all into my dad and saying how good of a father he was for teaching me. Am i wrong for hating her am i truly wrong for being mad at my aunt and uncle and dad. I need to know because i have a level of hatred that is so strong.