Is it a bad idea to go to lunch together in one car rather than drive seperately? I hate it when rumors start & I see this happen all of the time. I don't want people to think this man & I are having an affair, as we're not even doing that. Should we not go to lunch together? Yes, he slightly seems interested in me, but I know we're both level headed people who won't ever have an affair. I just don't want rumors to start at work. But, I don't want to be sneaky & make this guy think I'm interested in him when I'm not. Thanks.