...go, what should i do? I decided this year that i had a strong appeal in serving my country and joining the Army Rangers, but when i asked my best friend what she thought about it, she got sad and begged me not to go. Now if this was any other friend i would still do it, but this girl is very important to me. We are not dating, but we have strong feelings for each other, and i don't want to hurt her if something happens to me. What should i do?