I might be bisexual...I'm not sure.. and live in Intolerence, AL..?

[brettl]

Alright so.. I had a girlfriend and all of us were at one of those LSD and Ectasy parties.. well they are wanting me to kiss this guy cus they think its hot, or funny, or idk, but I do and I grab his ass on top of it..

Well.. now I am thinking I could be bisexual.. idk.. I've only been sexually attracted to a FEW guys, every time I have been drunk, or at least tipsy, and half the time its been for a crowd..

What I'm worried is that, if I am bisexual, or bi curious or whatever you want to call it.. how do I go about telling my GF this? :| I know her.. she isn't going to take it very well, she has low self esteem and I'm afraid she'll think I don't find her attractive, or IDK. Theres alot of things..

Another problem I have is that I live in Intolerence, AL.. in addition to being a bunch of racists and Satanist-hating pro war hicks, they don't take kindly to bisexuals at all..

Is it worth telling my GF? Am I really bisexual?
I've thought about it alot.. maybe someone can enlighten me?
Just for the record, I think my GF is hot as hell.
I think "intercourse" with another guy is wayyyyy too much..

But I have been turned on just enough to kiss guy and maybe grab some junk..once or twice when I was completely sober.

Intercourse.. WAY too much for me.

So I am very confused. :|

 

[JamieB]

Try kissing a guy when you are completely sober. Right now you just seem bicurious. Not untill you are completely sure of your sexuality should you tell your girlfriend, or ANYONE for that matter. But if you think she would not take kindly to it, you may want to reconsider telling her.

If you live in a homophobic area, you really ought not to come out. I live in a rather homophobic atmosphere also, and unfortunately I know I have to wait till I go to college to tell my family about this. Only a few of my good friends know, and I'm planning on keeping it like that untill I'm ready to live on my own.

Hope I helped