I need some answers so I don't fall too hard...?

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We went on a school trip this weekend (over night) and I met this guy, of course. Well, I met him through my friend because she knows like all the guys really well (but not on like bf background just as friends). Well my friend needed to know something so she called their room number, she talked to them for a while, then told this guy to talk to me. We talked for a few hours about nothing in particular then my friend talked to him again. We talked across balconies and he jumped off the balcony onto a car to show off. He climbed back up and then came over after curfew to our room. Me and our other roommate were paranoid about getting caught so he left. The next day we were really tired from staying up really late, so we were laying down on chairs, he told me to come over and sit by him and he laid his head on mine and we were like that for TWO minutes b4 people started making comments and taking pictures. That's just some of what happened... What do you think?I am afraid eitherhe likes my friend since he has known her longer and came over really to see her when he snuck out the first nighthe got scared after everyone started saying something when he was laying with methe balcony was like two feet over a suv so... he climbed over the balcony onto the car to get his shoe he threw over so he would have an excuse to go over the balcony... I think he was just being a teenage boy then...He made coffee for my friend and i but mostly my friend bc she was doing a presentation early in the morningWe were watching a movie and some girl took my seat so I didn't have a place to sit, so he gave me his seat on the couch and let me put my head on him while he laid on the top of the couch...I am REALLY confused bc of the coffee thing and stuff!!!!!
 
It sounds like he is enjoying the attention. I'm not sure if he likes either one of you for a potential gf. Just enjoy hanging out with him and getting to know him. If you want him to know you're interested, then show interest. I wish I could tell you how not to fall too hard. The truth is we fall sometimes when we don't want to. The key is not letting him determine what you do, and when you do it. For example, don't decide not to go to the movies with you friends, because you think he might call. You may not be able to control those butterflies, but you can control how you handle them!Things will work out for the best. They always do!!
 
you're overanalyzing. quit thinking so much and get to know the guy a little better before you decide that you want to have his children.
 
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