I used to see my guy friend several times a week. It's been about a week since I hung out with him, though. Last week he started working full time and going to school full time and had his birthday and celebrations on Saturday. Since then he didn't return my calls or texts saying I'd like to see him soon (though he doesn't usually work that way, he's just spontaneous). But before that he wanted to talk to me while on break at work but a coworker pulled him away. He texted me back once last night, and when I was with a friend near his house he was politely conversational but not into it. He said he was going to move to texas in a few weeks. He's planned on staying home or moving with a friend, and someday moving away maybe but that was like to run away from problems. So if he suddenly wanted to move away something changed. I dropped by tonight and he seemed surprised but fairly happy to see me. I said I want to say hi and I hadn't talked to him in awhile and asked if he had time. He said he was about to go with his brother somewhere but to hit him up sometime. Then he added that I should call first.
I've heard him blow people off and I don't think he was cause he told me to hit him up, it wasn't a "don't call me I'll call you" but I'm sensitive cause I haven't seen him much and he didn't return some of my calls. Also I'm not sure his brother likes me. My friend says he's cool but he personally stopped being friends with me and I heard him jokingly fuss at him on the phone when he said he was with me once.
I've heard him blow people off and I don't think he was cause he told me to hit him up, it wasn't a "don't call me I'll call you" but I'm sensitive cause I haven't seen him much and he didn't return some of my calls. Also I'm not sure his brother likes me. My friend says he's cool but he personally stopped being friends with me and I heard him jokingly fuss at him on the phone when he said he was with me once.