I really blew it......?

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JennyS

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I was tired of people treating me like I was an idiot and I couldn't achieve any thing because I got a 3.67 GPA on my report card for my 1st semester while my sister got a 4.16 GPA. On top of that my sister said I do nothing, called me stupid, lied to me, and she twisted everything I said against me. It made me so made and hurt! But, today she got into my my Private and personal work and said I was doing nothing while the whole time she was looking at the wrong folder. I got very mad and yelled at her (I kinda snapped...) and I've locked myself in my room protesting against me not having any privacy or respect... my sister says she only did it cause she doesn't want me to fail but I'm still mad that she did that to me... Now I'm going to work on the rest of the year school stuff until I finish... but I kinda feel bad for snapping at my sister... what do you think? Sorry for complaining and making it too long but I really want advice... Thanks
we made up and I think I will finially get my respect Thanks! 10 p for you!
 
It's perfectly normal to lose it once in a while but you shouldn't let the silence go on for too long. Swallow your pride and apologize to her. Maybe she can help you with some of your school work, if you want, but I think your grade average is good. I wouldn't have a problem with my kid if their gpa is like yours.

You should never compare or let someone compare you to your sister. It sounds like you two are close and it will only cause a big rift between you two. You are your own person with unique talents. A comparison between siblings is always unfair.
 
Don't beat yourself up. That is what siblings are supposed to do. Hell i give my little brother crap all the time! But if she really is taking it that far tell your parents.If she is being that bad to you i'm surprised you didn't do anything sooner! Anyways we all have our down points. You have the right to be a bit irritated. Hope i helped (L)
 
Having a sister myself, it's normal to have conflict, jealously, and even a competitive nature with one another. However, bare in mind that your accomplishments in life should be based upon what you choose and not trying to compete with hers. Be proud of the accomplishments in life that you have made, and don't worry so much about what your sister thinks.When people love someone unconditionally, it is never based upon the amount of trophies in a case or their grade point average. True success as a person is based upon how we treat others in life. Be good to yourself and acknowledge that just b/c she is your sister you don't need to compete with her. You are an individual, not her. Seems to me that your sister who places so much emphasis on competition with you, has personal reasons to be jealous of you. As far as snapping at her, it happens. let her know that you are sorry the way you snapped at her, but that you were hurt when she becomes so competitive. your sister's and need to rely on one another, not compete with each other. Good LucK!
 
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