I have a 15 year old son, and believe me, I know that I sound crazy, and I have spent many hours trying to find some way to talk myself out of it, but it just all seems to add up.
One time about a 9 months ago I took him to the shooting range, and let him use my Colt .45 and .357. I was going to explain to him how to work it all out, but he said that he knew how and could do it. I thought that he would just mess up and let me show him, but he loaded the gun faster than I ever have, which I have been using for almost 20 years, and when he shot, all of his bullets hit the bullseye. I asked him where he learned to shoot, and he just told me it came natural.
About three months ago he got into a fight at school and severely hurt the kid. The principal told me that he had come upon them and been stopped in his tracks for a few seconds by the style of fighting that my son had used. The principal said that he saw my son flip the other child over his back effortlessly. I thought maybe it was something he saw on a movie and had been successful in attempting it, but it did make us keep our eyes open.
And we didn't really see anything up until last week when my wife was cleaning his room and she found a paper with the words
M. STATEMENT written on it, followed by a bunch of numbers.
It was a small slip of paper.
Also, I know my son is smart, and he has the capacity to be anything he wants. And I'm not talking about the every parents statement "Oh, my son is so smart, blah blah blah." Like he is nearly genius, and has modeled for a magazine before when the photographer across the street from my wifes office came over and asked her if he could on bring your son to work day, so needless to say, he is very handsome, and could be a lively candidate for agentship. But without saying, I still know that its a ridiculous thought for the government to hire a minor to do work for them.
And finally his behavior has been withdrawn and he barely ever talks to us anymore. He has all this money we have no idea where he got from, and we just don't know? We asked why he was acted very different then the kid we know him as. He got defensive, and told us that he didn't think that he was acting very wierd and wishes we wouldn't judge him. He sold the act to my wife but not me.
Once again let me say I know that I sound completely crazy, but its just something that seems to make sense.
And if you need any more details, please ask, I need to know.
Should we snoop? I feel like I would be invading his privacy? I don't want to cut off all ties with him by pressuring him and scaring him. Help, I know that this isn't a normal problem for a parent, but this is very real.
And I know for a fact that he isn't doing or selling drugs because my wife had his hair tested and it came back negative.
And please be serious, were a little nervous about this.
Also, he has a journal he keeps, and we are considering reading it. I know I would be furious if my parents ever did that kind of thing to me, but were concerned here.
Im using my other sons Yahoo! answers account for this, in case you're wondering.
And to Gingo!, I severely hope your hunch is wrong. I don't think my sweet boy that I have raised as my own really could be a pyschopath on the verge of cracking, I think he is just trained to do something, but I don't know where he learned it, but I want to!
Also, I dont think he is a terrorist, I think it would be part of the United States government, If MY hunch is right.
One time about a 9 months ago I took him to the shooting range, and let him use my Colt .45 and .357. I was going to explain to him how to work it all out, but he said that he knew how and could do it. I thought that he would just mess up and let me show him, but he loaded the gun faster than I ever have, which I have been using for almost 20 years, and when he shot, all of his bullets hit the bullseye. I asked him where he learned to shoot, and he just told me it came natural.
About three months ago he got into a fight at school and severely hurt the kid. The principal told me that he had come upon them and been stopped in his tracks for a few seconds by the style of fighting that my son had used. The principal said that he saw my son flip the other child over his back effortlessly. I thought maybe it was something he saw on a movie and had been successful in attempting it, but it did make us keep our eyes open.
And we didn't really see anything up until last week when my wife was cleaning his room and she found a paper with the words
M. STATEMENT written on it, followed by a bunch of numbers.
It was a small slip of paper.
Also, I know my son is smart, and he has the capacity to be anything he wants. And I'm not talking about the every parents statement "Oh, my son is so smart, blah blah blah." Like he is nearly genius, and has modeled for a magazine before when the photographer across the street from my wifes office came over and asked her if he could on bring your son to work day, so needless to say, he is very handsome, and could be a lively candidate for agentship. But without saying, I still know that its a ridiculous thought for the government to hire a minor to do work for them.
And finally his behavior has been withdrawn and he barely ever talks to us anymore. He has all this money we have no idea where he got from, and we just don't know? We asked why he was acted very different then the kid we know him as. He got defensive, and told us that he didn't think that he was acting very wierd and wishes we wouldn't judge him. He sold the act to my wife but not me.
Once again let me say I know that I sound completely crazy, but its just something that seems to make sense.
And if you need any more details, please ask, I need to know.
Should we snoop? I feel like I would be invading his privacy? I don't want to cut off all ties with him by pressuring him and scaring him. Help, I know that this isn't a normal problem for a parent, but this is very real.
And I know for a fact that he isn't doing or selling drugs because my wife had his hair tested and it came back negative.
And please be serious, were a little nervous about this.
Also, he has a journal he keeps, and we are considering reading it. I know I would be furious if my parents ever did that kind of thing to me, but were concerned here.
Im using my other sons Yahoo! answers account for this, in case you're wondering.
And to Gingo!, I severely hope your hunch is wrong. I don't think my sweet boy that I have raised as my own really could be a pyschopath on the verge of cracking, I think he is just trained to do something, but I don't know where he learned it, but I want to!
Also, I dont think he is a terrorist, I think it would be part of the United States government, If MY hunch is right.