I thought when meeting my birth parents it would be a joyous time in my life

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Madison

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but I was so wrong? I thought when meeting my birth parents it would be a joyous time in my life. I’m 17 I just met my birth parents 3 weeks ago they found me I agreed to met them along with my parents I was given up for adoption when I was 2 years old.

I met them first we had a good time they finally came to my house for dinner. Ever since then out conversation have been anything but nice. They said I’m too spoiled and if we lived with them it would never happen, and my parents are not raising me right a lot of hurtful things.

My parents said give it one more chance then they will step in. But I don’t think I can they are making me have so much anger for them. I have no idea what to do? I don’t know why they would say thing like that to me? They were the ones that found me.
 
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Crystal

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They didnt raise you... and you are almost an adult. I am surprised they are acting like that. Most parents who havent seen their child in so long are typically so emotional that they do not know how to resume parenting. I would keep your relationship with them minimal.
 
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